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PRAYER FOR YOUR CHURCH
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Lord, I lift up the adults in my congregation to You. May we live worthy of Your call on our lives. As we respond to that call, fulfill every purpose, every faith-filled act of service by Your power. May we be clothed in righteousness with hearts that sing for joy and delight greatly in You. We want to walk with You, Jesus, dressed in white, adorned with jewels. (Eph. 4:1; 2 Thes. 1:11; Ps. 132:9; Isa. 61:10; Rev. 3:4)
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Home October 2006 A Pastor Muses on Prayer
Prayer leader Online interviews Ray Pritchard, senior Pastor of Calvary Memorial Church, Oak Park, Illinois.
Q. Ray, you are a pastor-teacher who recognizes the role of prayer in the life of both the believer and the corporate body. What factors led to this awareness? After serving as a pastor for 26 years in three churches in widely differing circumstances, I can look back over some wonderful high points and some very difficult low moments. I have known the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat. Often they came in the same day. When I look back to those early days of my ministry, I smile because like a lot of young people, I came out of seminary with no shortage of self-confidence. That in itself is a good thing and even a gift from God because the young often approach life with a kind of fearless courage that enables them to do things the rest of us think can't be done. Time has a way of refining our self-confidence and ideally replacing it with a new kind of God-confidence.
In my early days in Oak Park we came to a crisis in the church that
plunged us into controversy. It was a combination of worship issues,
theological issues, and the whole question of what sort of church we
would become. At one point a man came to me and told me that not only
should I leave the church, but that I should never be a pastor again
and that he would work to see that happen. In God's providence at that
very moment I spent a few days teaching at a mission station in Belize.
There in the jungle, far removed from all the controversy, I had a
powerful experience of the Holy Spirit. I pictured the church with a
large black cloud hanging over it. It seemed that the Lord was saying
to me, "You have seen what you can do, but you have no answers for this
problem." I came to a deep conviction that the cloud would not lift by
preaching or programs but only by prayer. When I shared that with the
congregation upon my return, the people were deeply moved. Out of that
came the prayer movement at Calvary, and l look back on that as the
turning point of my entire ministry in Oak Park.
Q. What led you to write And When You Pray and how did it help you in your pastoral role?
In the early 1990s I happened to read a book that mentioned the
importance of the Ten Commandments, the Lord's Prayer and the Apostles'
Creed to the early Christians. The Ten Commandments tells us how to
have a right relationship with God, the Lord's Prayer shows us how to
maintain that relationship, and the Apostles' Creed lays out the broad
outlines of the Christian faith from the very beginning. I decided to
preach through all those documents as a means of equipping my own
congregation. It happens that I did the Ten Commandments in 1991 and
the Lord's Prayer in 1992. It took me 12 more years, but I finally got
to the Apostles' Creed in 2004. By the way, I should say that I
recommend this sort of preaching to pastors everywhere because it
provides a unified approach to the spiritual life and it connects the
congregation to the larger stream of Christian history across the
generation.
As I preached through the Lord's Prayer, I found it a profoundly
enriching experience because those few simple sentences start in
heaven, sweep down to the earth, and then take up back to heaven again.
Because I was not raised in a church that said the Lord's Prayer very
often, I had never studied it in depth. The book simply came forth from
the sermons and from my own reflections on the words of Jesus. I still
remember meeting a Christian leader who told me that there was a part
of the prayer that everyone should pray every day. He said he learned
it himself as a young man when he asked a wise older leader to help him
as he was just starting out. So from the older leader to my friend to
me, here is the one part of the Lord's Prayer we should pray every day:
"Yours is the kingdom, the power and the glory forever, Amen." We ought
to pray that way to remind ourselves it's not our kingdom we're
building, it's God's. It's not our power that matters, it's God's. It's
not our glory we seek, it's God's. Many days those simple words have
refocused my soul.
Q. A praying pastor is strategic to the corporate prayer life of the
congregation. What struggles did you encounter? How did you
compensate/overcome them?
Years ago I read a book by Peter Wagner where he talked about the
importance of pastors having a "prayer shield" to cover them. As a
result I recruited 15-20 men and asked them to become my prayer
partners. As I recall, the men were not only ready, they were eager to
pray for me. I wrote them with updates, met with them occasionally,
and updated them on my particular needs. Later we opened that ministry
to women and called it the Prayer Warriors movement, which eventually
grew to over 200 people. That led to building a prayer room under the
sanctuary where people would come to pray during all the worship
services. Looking back, I can see that there was a correlation between
the evident blessing of God on my ministry and the strength of those
who were praying for me. It is not a matter of numbers but of fervent
believers who lifted up their pastor in prayer. The first man I ever
recruited as a prayer partner eventually moved to a distant city. Every
time I see him (every couple of years), he tells me that he still prays
for me every morning at 6:30.
Knowing that so many people were praying for me gave me purpose and
endurance in my own walk with God. I once had a friend tell me he was
praying for my prayer life. That took me aback for a moment, but I
think that was a wonderful gift. I have no doubt that my prayers had
more depth and power because others were praying for my prayers.
Q. In your observation, what is the biggest misconception pastors have regarding prayer?
I suppose most pastors instinctively feel that prayer comes to the very
core of what we ought to be doing, yet in our culture we often are not
rewarded for time spent in prayer. We live in a performance-based world
where pastors are asked to produce tangible results quickly. While it
has never been easy to be a pastor, I think that expectations are
higher than ever and patience is lower than ever. The honeymoon for
most new pastors doesn't last very long. As a result it's easy for a
pastor to fall into the trap of thinking that he's got to get busy and
make things happen now, today, this very moment. Slowly we can slip
into the fallacy of believing that our "production" in the ministry
depends on us. To the extent we begin to think that way, prayer will
not seem very important to us. But once we fall into that trap, we
enter a game we cannot win and that will only wear us down and
eventually burn us out.
No pastor can satisfy the competing demands of all the people in his
church. Unless we build a strong inner core where our souls find rest
in God, we will probably not last very long in the ministry or we will
be swept away by one fad or another or we will be held captive by
interest groups in the church, and we will probably become angry,
frustrated and disillusioned. At that point prayer becomes a burden,
not a blessing.
All of us as pastors struggle with prayer. And that struggle itself is
not sinful. It is a reminder that we are made of flesh and that
something in us will fight against prayer because prayer is an
admission that apart from God, we are a bunch of pathetic losers. The
flesh flights against that judgment but it is true nonetheless. When we
pray, we launch a revolution against self-sufficiency and plant the
flag of God's sovereignty in our heart.
Q. Ray, write a prayer for your colleagues who lead ministries and congregations.
Father in heaven, I thank You for the godly men and women You have
called to lead Your church. I ask your special help for those who are
discouraged and feeling overwhelmed. Grant them a fresh vision of Your
love. Help them to see that You love them beyond all human reason. Your
cross has proved forever that You love the unlovely because while we,
the leaders of Your church, were yet sinners, Christ died for us. May
we never forget that truth. Save us from the folly of preaching to
others what we fail to believe ourselves. Show us again that apart from
You, we are nothing but pathetic losers.
Thank You for calling us out of the marketplace of life and giving us a
job to do in Your vineyard. When we are tempted to compare or to
complain, open the eyes of our heart to see the glory of what shall one
day be revealed to us.
Grant courage to the faint of heart.
Grant wisdom to the confused.
Grant strength to those who being tempted.
Grant overflowing love to those whose love is running on empty.
Let Jesus be seen in us so that those who follow us might truly be following Him. Amen.
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